Nudist beaches, dogging, voyeur cams, taxi cab confessions, and celebrity sex tapes. If the prevalence of these things tell us anything, it’s that as humans we really love watching other people fuck. You can be as shy about it as you want, but we’re having this discussion…
So maybe you’ve made your own sex tape. Maybe you’ve just watched porn. Maybe you get a little tingling in your ballsack watching Angelina Jolie make out with that other hot chick in Gia. Regardless, there is something to be said about the joy of watching someone else get down and dirty.
Now, turn that around for a minute. There’s a pornstar within all of us… Being watched having sex is thrilling as fuck.
There’s a little exhibitionist in all of us
Do you ever just sit there, shuffling through your daily thoughts, and wonder to yourself which one of those would make a great Facebook post? Which picture would work best on your Instagram feed? What, in 280 characters or less, would really get your point across to the masses? So, you post this amazing thought, or you put up this incredible picture, and you crave those likes. With each stupid thumbs up, unnecessary heart, or retweet, you feel a little bit better about your internal dialogue? You feel sexy, smart, desired.
Mardi Gras is an excellent example of exhibitionism in the US. Women from all different backgrounds run around and display their tits in exchange for useless plastic beads. The beads alone aren’t worth anything, but it’s the feeling you get from knowing that people enjoy what you have to offer.
Welcome to exhibitionism my friend. Being watched having sex is like a popular Facebook post on steroids. You feel incredibly powerful, sexy, and more desired than 3k likes on Instagram could ever make you feel…
Types of Exhibitionism
There are many different types of exhibitionism, but there are three type of this sexy practice that really turn us on:
While it’s mostly a UK thing, dogging is starting to take off all over Europe and even in some places in America. Dogging is when a couple agrees to being watched having sex by parking their car in a semi-conspicuous place and flicking on the overhead light or the headlights. This lets other people know they want to be watched.
Nudity is a pretty big thing all over Europe. Go to just about any beach and you shouldn’t be surprised to see women without their tops on. Nudist beaches are known for providing tourists with easy access to people who like being watched having sex. It’s not uncommon to hit the nudist beach only to trip over a couple mid-doggy style. It’s pretty obvious that the couple is happy to be providing the show, and it’s rare to see anyone else being shy about taking in an eyeful.
Voyeur cams are quite possibly the best way to get your voyeur fix. Live-streaming feed for 24 hours of consensual participants going about their daily lives. Showering, cooking, fucking, masturbating… Voyeur cams catch it all. And you can too, from the comfort of your own home. No need to find a set of nearby bushes to enjoy the show, you have complete and unfettered access to any aspect of these people lives, and you can shamelessly masturbate to your heart’s content to whatever part of that gets you off.
Why People Love Being Watched Having Sex
For most, it’s more than just a paycheck, and much more than just simple exhibitionism. “Being watched having sex is next level” a member of Voyeur House tells us. “It just takes the sex to the next plain. You know you’re being watched, so you really want to put on a good show, and while you and your partner are doing that, it’s just impossible not to enjoy each other that much more.”
Exhibitionism has come a long way from the creepy fat dude in a trench coat, flashing his hairy ballsack at whoever passes by. People from all over the world have discovered just how ramped up their sexuality can become when they know they’re being watched have sex. “It’s like posting a workout pic on Instagram, only times 1000. You know you’re sexy, you know you look incredible when you fuck, having people feel the same, having people get off just by seeing you get your girl to cum, is such an incredible feeling.”